Wednesday, December 23, 2009

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Monday, December 21, 2009

Should Elin Nordegren Stay for the Dough?



Should Elin Nordegren Stay for the Dough? By Natalie Pace.

Dear Natalie:

Like Elin, I thought I married a Tiger, but I ended up with a Cheetah (cheater). Is this a deal breaker, or should we stay for the money?

Dear Cheetah Lover:

It’s sobering and sad to experience such a deep level of betrayal, as both you and Elin have endured. However, my guess is that there were clues all along that you were always dealing with a Cheetah, not a Tiger. So, this wake-up call is a blessing and an opportunity to right some very serious wrongs sooner rather than later.

Most of the free advice lavished on Elin these days focuses on money, and that is very short-sighted. No amount of money can heal a screwed up marriage and the at-risk kids that kind of life creates. Golf club weapons, car accidents, “sexting” on the sly, et al. is the opposite of what kids should see their parents doing.

Sanctuary Home.
A home is where the soul is nourished or polluted. Betrayal is toxic. The primary question for Elin (and you) to answer is, “Can I create and thrive in my home as a sanctuary?” And more importantly, “Can my children learn to become healthy, loving partners in this home?”

Parents are role models and nurturers. In order to do their job right, the two must immerse themselves in an abundance of trust and loyalty, with a healthy dose of humor. In short, their union must be sacred – above all other allegiances. Not at the sacrifice of his/her own individuality – but as a compliment and foundation for each partner’s own greatness.

Pleasure seekers do not make great sacred companions. Discord, deceit, lies, cheating and violence are horrible examples for children. (Duh!) You pay the price of an ugly relationship glued together with “money,” in abuse (physical, verbal, emotional or monetary), ridicule, underlying and chronic unhappiness, addiction and violence – and these become what the children know as normal and will go on to replicate in their own lives as adults.

From the outside, it’s hard to know how many of these very serious and tragic circumstances Elin endures (or you endure), but the statistics are not good. The children of “pleasure seekers” -- who seek to fill up their free time with drugs/alcohol/sex – too often end up as addicts, too. Children who witness violence/discord/mayhem/struggle/deceit/lies in the home go on to create that for themselves as adults.

Elin’s primary job (and your job) is to break the cycle of addiction and violence – if not for herself, then for her children. She should not “stay” for the money. She should create a sanctuary home immediately for her children, away from the seeds of discord. Her Cheetah may promise to become a Tiger again, and even take radical steps to renew the sacred union. But addicts are commonly trapped in a never-ending cycle of addiction and bad behavior, followed by remorse and regret. Neither Elin nor you should fall for promises of change. By his actions, over an extended period of time, you will know him. And in the meantime, the relationship cannot be rebuilt upon such a damaged foundation.

Get out immediately, which is the only way healing can begin (for both the Cheetah and the Cheated On). Not necessarily divorce immediately, but separate now, so that if the union is renewed, it is rebuilt upon a strong and sacred foundation. Go to your mother’s is you have, too (like they used to in the olden days).

Elin can and should get enough money to provide for herself and her children, regardless of whether she stays married or divorces, and the same goes with you, too! Focus on the sanctuary home and thriving, while at the same time making sure that you protect the lives and livelihood of the kids. Cheetahs are dangerous to have in the home, and the fiscal fallout of their risky behavior can be far more expensive -- in time, money, postponed happiness and bailouts for messed up teens -- than any pay day can afford.

About Natalie Pace:
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Monday, November 16, 2009

Ask Natalie: Should I Start a 401(k)?

Dear Natalie:

I’m 54 and don’t have any retirement plan… I just started a new job and my employer is offering me a 401k auto deduction of 3% before taxes beginning May 1, if I choose. How do I know if this is the best choice for my money to invest? I have no current investments or retirement accounts......... am 54 years old and need to make some wise safe investment decisions........ Can you please advise?

Signed Better Late Than Never?




Dear Better Late Than Never!

Yes. Read my new book, You Vs. Wall Street, to learn all of the reasons why, but yes, to 401(k), yes to investing, and, yes, get started right away. Did you know that if you were 18 and you only earned $14 an hour, but put 10% into a 401k religiously, and never got a raise, you’d be a millionaire before you were 50? It’s best to start the investing habit early, but never too late to start doing the right thing! Here’s how it works.




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The first year you would contribute $2,890 and your returns would be, on average, $347 (or 12%). The second year, you contribute another $2,890. Your new principal is $6,127. Your gains are $735. By the 6th year, you are making as much in gains as you are contributing each year. By the 10th year, you have over $50,000, and are earning $6,082 in gains that year. This is based upon an average annual return of 12% in stocks, which is what stocks have been doing most of this century. And even if you don’t get those kind of gains (keep reading because this is a consideration), you still have monthly 401(k) contributions going toward your Fund My Dream Life account, instead of poured down the drain of your spending habits.

Now, you might say, stocks are doing terribly and you’re afraid and everyone around you is telling you it’s the Apocalypse and the markets are going to continue to drop! Acckkk! But, you don’t have to lose the money you put in your 401(k). Most plans have a "safe" or at least safer allocation, such as Treasury bills, short-term government bonds or the money markets, which are not invested in the "stock market."

There have been many opportunities over the last ten years to make a lot of money in the stock market, without a lot of time or attention. You do need the "know how," however, which is why it’s important to read my book – because buying and holding mutual funds doesn’t work in a slow growth economy (which we’re in). The last ten years has seen a series of booms and busts, where you could have earned a lot of money if you were 1) properly diversified in ETFs (instead of mutual funds), 2) rebalancing once a year and capturing your gains, and 3) keeping at least a percent equal to your age safe. (If you just bought and held and checked off boxes blindly, you would have lost a little money.)

You need to learn how much to keep safe and how to properly diversify your holdings, so that you easily can see and capture gains each year. Don’t get scared, it’s as easy as a pie chart and that is outlined in my book also (page 91, I believe). For now, just start your 401(k) and put most or all of it in the safest place you can, such as Treasury Bills or a short-term government bond fund.

Get started in the habit of investing in a better life and then make it your job to start learning just four other important things.

1. Get educated so that your money can really gain while you sleep (no fuss, no fret, no babysitting). Reading my book is a great start. Coming to my retreat means that in three days, you’ll set up your retirement blueprint for life! Buy Put Your Money Where Your Heart Is anywhere that books are sold. Get more information on my next Get Rich and Green Retreat on the home page at NataliePace.com. There are only four seats remaining so if you’re interested, call 866.476.7442 right away to reserve your seat.

We have a special on the price now through May 15, 2009. Subscribers receive the Early Bird Pricing and a $2000 gift of a 12-month premium subscription. That way you get the 3-days of education and then ongoing support all year long, in the form of monthly ezine, mid-month update and quarterly teleconferences with me.

2. Ask your employer if they do a match! Many employers do. That’s an instant raise.

3. Figure out how to put 10%, not just 3%, into your retirement plan. If the 401(k) is capped at 3%, then go to an online discount brokerage and find out other tax-protected plans that you might qualify for, including IRAs (SEP, ROTH, traditional), health savings accounts, and more. Tithe to yourself and watch how your Buy My Own Island Plans grow quickly! 401ks, IRAs and health savings accounts all have tax advantages, and at least part of this is money that you would be paying Uncle Sam. So, it’s not more money being spent. It’s a check you write to yourself instead of the IRS at the end of the year.

4. Pick a better name. No one wants to start or grow a retirement account or 401k. Everyone wants to start and nourish his or her Buy My Own Dream House fund or the Send my Grandchildren to College account. Pick a goal of why you want to start earning money while you sleep, and what exactly you will do as you gain more assets! This will inspire you to keep contributing to the plan, maximizing the performance, adjusting as needed for greater gain and then reaping what you profit once you’re ready to purchase one more piece of your dream life!



About Natalie Pace:
Natalie Pace, is the author of You Vs. Wall Street, host of Naughty Girls' Guide to Sex, Love and Money on BlogTalkRadio.com/Natalie, and CEO of one of the most respected, independently owned financial news corporations in the U.S. She has been ranked as a #1 stock picker from TipsTraders.com and has partnered content with Forbes.com, Sohu.com, Kiplinger’s Personal Finance and more. She has appeared on Fox News, Good Morning America, CNBC, Time Magazine, More Magazine, USA Today, NPR and national radio shows. For more information please visit, http://www.nataliepace.com.




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